Matching Luggage...
Nov. 11th, 2002 01:36 pmI used the think the key to successful relationship was about sharing life goals and dreams and stuff like that. On kind of bad days I simply explain it as finding someone whose level of crazy/stupid doesn't exceed your level of tolerance.
Well, all that has changed. While pondering a late night conversation with
jolefay I had an epiphany. The secret to a successful relationship...
Brace yourselves...
It is all about baggage.
That's right, baggage. We all have it. Some more than others but, we all have it. She secret is finding someone whose emotional luggage matches yours.
See, if you are the highly organized leather benneton type then you will never be happy with someone who is still just throwing stuff into a fourth hand army duffel and vice versa. You luggage just doesn't match.
Oh, and if you are trying to hook up with one of those people with the faux-embroidered floral print stuff, give up now. Nothing goes with that crap.
*between this and the easter chicken...i feel brilliant...*
Well, all that has changed. While pondering a late night conversation with
Brace yourselves...
It is all about baggage.
That's right, baggage. We all have it. Some more than others but, we all have it. She secret is finding someone whose emotional luggage matches yours.
See, if you are the highly organized leather benneton type then you will never be happy with someone who is still just throwing stuff into a fourth hand army duffel and vice versa. You luggage just doesn't match.
Oh, and if you are trying to hook up with one of those people with the faux-embroidered floral print stuff, give up now. Nothing goes with that crap.
*between this and the easter chicken...i feel brilliant...*